I believe that single parenting is one of the most challenging responsibilities that life has to offer. At times, this job has the potential to rip your heart into pieces. Talking to friends and relatives can relieve some of the pressure. But you wonder, is there anyone that really, really, understands your pain. Looking back, I recall speaking to a good friend, who also happened to be a single parent. The challenges of loneliness, financial struggles, as well as my desire to discipline my children in ways that would help them, all seemed to overtake me at times. It sounds foolish to me now, but at that time I said to my friend, "how can God really know what this feels like"? And now I know that The Lord God himself is the only one who realty does understand every up and every down of single parenting. Surely, other single parents may identify with your experiences and others my empathize with you. But only The Lord God Himself actually goes through every moment with you. Just as I did, you might wonder - if The Lord is with me, why I'm even going through all of this in the first place. Well, honestly, many of my own troubles have been due to my own bad choices. But that doesn't prevent The Lord from being there for me, nor do your past mistakes prevent Him from being there for you. I remember being so very distressed at one point until I literally cried out to The Lord. I asked Him why my life was going as it was. I was amazed by what I heard, although I didn't understand it that time. In response to my crying out I heard, "I HAVE LOVED YOU WITH AN EVERLASTING LOVE". I was shocked to find out months later that those very words are actually written in the Bible (Jeremiah 31:3). I must tell you that during that moment of my crying out, although The Lord said that He loved me, the last thing that I felt was loved. I felt abandoned and desperate for answers, and for help. As time passed, I began to see and really experience the awesomeness of The Lord's love as He provided for us. As I read the Bible and held on to the wisdom I found there. I began to understand the importance of correcting my children in love and I gained the strength I needed to carry this out. I also learned that only The Lord Himself can satisfy the loneliness that I felt. He did this by surrounding us with caring people with pure motives to help us. Yes, The Lord is with me. He's also only a prayer away from you. And what is prayer but opening up your mouth and heart to The Lord and humbly speaking the truth to Him. Yes, The Lord does love me and yes He does love you and your children. Pray to Him. Sometimes His answers are heard, and other times His answers come through other people, and most of the time His answers are found in the Bible. No matter what you've been through, the choices you've made, or where you are right now, The Lord really does love you too, and it's an everlasting love!
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